A few weeks I had an epiphany. I had finally reached breaking point. I was finally sick and tired of myself. My fear. My anxiety. My anticipation. My agitation. My worry.
I was tired of being held to ransom!
Now, I know what you’re thinking. Easier said than done! And your right however, there is one key difference. There was an energetic shift.
But, that wasn’t the only thing. For change to happen there must be an energetic shift, a change in your cellular vibration or resonance, a re-patterning of your neurological imprint however, normally the shift follows the conscious thought. You make a decision to no longer feel a certain way or behave a certain way and your body follows, hopefully!
In my case, it happened the other way around, or at least that’s what I think happened. The energetic shift happened and then I woke up in a different place.
I know this to be true because daily and every moment since this has been my new state.
I chose to no longer feel held to ransom by anyone or anything!
None of us like feeling at the mercy of another person or organisation. None of us like waiting for a decision or outcome or opinion or judgement however, the reason this is so uncomfortable is with the meaning we add to it. We decide our lives are conditional on external forces.
What I have come to realise is no-one or no-thing can take ‘who I am’ away, my essence, my true being (unless I choose to give it away!) This means who I am and who you are is untouchable and always safe and protected if I choose to be the case. My life is completely unconditional to everything around me.
Now, I understand external forces can have an influence but it’s more about how I choose to react and respond.
When you choose to not be held to ransom this creates a calm space for you to assess, review and choose the next right course of action.
Each day I now simply ask myself these key questions, ‘What do I need to do today that will continue to lead me to my ideal destination? Am I doing all that I can do to reach my ideal life and destination? Am I living my ideal destination as if it is already here in every moment?
This is all that matters. What will be and what will come.
I then remind myself I have the power to manifest my ideal reality in every moment.
In this space I literally cross each bridge as they present rather than feeling the anticipation and anxiety which leads to awfulizing and thinking the worst.
I am now empowered, at ease and able live more fully in the present moment.
So, don’t be held to ransom, choose now to take back your power and live your life fully!
About the author:
Dr. Andrew Arnold is a Chiropractor and Founder of Million Dollar Wellness and the Intern program.